It’s All Just Attraction ….

Purva Agarwal
4 min readMay 7, 2020

One of the reasons I started writing blogs was to get out the thoughts boiling inside me. I may not be that wise but my life is full of experiences. Many of my blogs so far has been one of those experiences too. Here I am with one more.

I am someone who is barely fond of humans custom or mentality. And it’s not a secret that how advance youth humans can be. No doubt, there can be no match to what these humans can create, can follow or can destroy. Yes I am one of that youth too but no comparison can be made between us. No one can be anyone else’s match.

Each one of us is unique in a unique way!

Talking about my experiences of life, one of the things I genuinely like to experience is listening other human’s experiences. Really it’s an amazing way to learn something. I have always been a firm believer that every human you meet, interact or have certain acquaintance with has a teaching to do as a specify character in your chapters.

Lately one of this experiences left me to think and understand that one factor of life is there which these same humans are either creating or destroying. Either they are respecting or disrespecting the existence of that factor. And to some extend they are taking advantage of that factor while making it as disadvantage for others. Sadly, that factor is Attraction!

I have known that attraction is something which is within and thoroughly natural. But it’s so sad to see that humans have made it something as artificial or an outer beauty. Man, don’t these people know the meaning of word – “Artficial”!

I strongly agree that humans are prudent but equally dumb too. And their dumbness is evident when they take attraction as something which they can see, touch, imagine and drool over by noticing it in another human. Where did they lost their senses dude?

This era is so competitive that people truly appreciate and desire skin beauty, possessions, popularity, status, in short things which never last long. There are some who desires certain qualities in humans like smartness, maturity, sensibilities, sound mind and practical approach. Merely they are just attracted towards these things which they find in others.

Did you ever heard that people are attracted towards something which they already have? Yeah, it’s answer has no presence. This is human nature that we desire the things we don’t have and take for granted the things which we have.

When was the last time that you felt attracted towards something which is absolute natural? Which requires no single effort to be noticed by others? Whose presence was unconventional? Think about it! You will understand attraction can be towards your own self as well. The moment you feel attracted towards the real you, towards your raw and strong personality, trust me you will lose fondness with artificial attraction.

It’s a natural occurrence that we get attracted towards counterfeit things either material or human. It’s natural that every single man is attracted with every other women except the one he his with. You are bound to feel attracted towards someone else’ lifestyle not trying to live the one which you have. This all happen because human gets attracted with artificial.

Who can prominently say that those counterfeit items are permanent, that the other girls beauty you are attracted to will never fade, can you say how real and happy that lifestyle is which you are attracted by?

Everyone wants everything perfect in life but they forget that there is no such thing which is perfect ever. Neither artificial items or beauty or possessions will be with you forever. The only thing which stays with you is your own real self, your qualities, your efforts, your achievements, your memories and moments.

Imagine getting attracted towards a snowy mountain under moonlight, imagine getting attracted towards the efforts that someone makes to be a part of your life, imagine being attracted towards the affection you gain from your family, imagine feeling attracted towards the support and friendship goals you receive, imagine be attracted your hard work and dedication. This list will go on and on.

So think for a moment what is worthy to be attracted with either artificiality or naturalistic things? Either outer beauty or inner self? Either the ones we have in life or someone whom we can never have? Either adventures we do or what others do? THINK ABOUT IT!



Purva Agarwal

𝗘𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗿’𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗜𝗻 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 🎈 @words_of_admirer